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Katrina x Salman Split?

Rumors are there about a possible split between the bollywood mega stars Salman and Katrina. Exact news is not available currently. It is purported in media that Salman is throwing Katrina's gifts.

It takes much time and understanding to build a good relation among us and a second to break all. And everybody may be knowing, Salman is always kind with little garam in mizaaj, may be media might have mistaken. Log tu kuch bhi bolde te hain!! Let's see they make the things well, if the media story is true!!

Readers please update news of this Salman x Katrina split rumours and please post comment your feelings.

Enhancing Relationships

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to   suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call.   She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She   repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to   cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if   the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

NO POINTING FINGERS 

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" 
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." 

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. 

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? 

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." 

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING 

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." 

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. 

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.

RIGHT SPEECH 

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. 

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." 

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION 

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? "Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. 

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."  The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you."  Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. 

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. 

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

BE PATIENT 

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. 

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed  suicide. 

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't.. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. 

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

A good story from my mallu friend!

This is bit old though, still enjoyable :

Kuttappan is a mallu...! Kuttappan was bragging to his boss one day, "You know, I know everyone there is to know. Just name someone, anyone, and I know them."

Tired of his boasting, his boss called his bluff,

"OK, Kuttappan how about Tom Cruise?" "Sure, yes, Tom and I are old friends, and I can prove it." So Kuttappan and his boss fly out to Hollywood and knock on Tom Cruise's door, and sure enough, Tom Cruise shouts, "Machambee! Great to see you! You and your friend come right in and join me for lunch!"

Although impressed, Kuttappan's boss is still skeptical. After they leave Cruise's house, he tells Kuttappan that he thinks Kuttappan's knowing Cruise was just lucky. "No, no, just name anyone else", Kuttappan says.

"President Bush," his boss quickly retorts. "Yes," Kuttappan says, "I know him, let's fly Out to Washington." And off they go. At the White House, Bush spots Kuttappan on the tour and motions him and his boss over, saying, "Babu, what a surprise, I was just on my way to a meeting, but you and your friend come on in and let's have a cup of coffee first and catch up."

Well, the boss is very shaken by now, but still not totally convinced. After they leave the White House grounds, he expresses his doubts to Kuttappan who again implores him to name anyone else. "The Pope," his boss replies. "Sure!" says Kuttappan.

"I have a lot of friends in Poland, and I've known the Pope a long time." So off they fly to Rome. Kuttappan and his boss are assembled with the masses in Vatican Square when Kuttappan says, "This will never work. I can't catch the Pope's eye among all these people. Tell you what, I know all the guards, so let me just go upstairs and I'll come out on the balcony with the Pope. So he disappears into the crowd, headed toward the Vatican. Sure enough, half an hour later Kuttappan emerges with the Pope on the balcony. But by the time Kuttappan returns, he finds that his boss has had a heart attack and is surrounded by paramedics.

Working his way to his boss' side, Kuttappan asks him, what happened?"

His boss looks up and says, "I was doing fine until you and the Pope came out on the balcony and the man next to me said, "Who's that on the balcony with Kuttappan?

Moral of the story - Don't ever underestimate a malayalee again!

Lalu Bhai seen in the beach!

for fun only, but he is my favorite!

Mai hoon na / Aegan the ultimate bakwas??

No plans, nothing for yesterday, except hearing the left out Diwali cracker noise in my room. I felt very uncomfortable, just then arrived my friend and with no hi, hello….made a plan to go for movie park to the nearest one…The Inox, Jayanagar…..which is a recently opened shopping mall cum Entertainment Park.

We just finished our dinner hurriedly on the way to the cinema hall which is around 2 km and were available gazing at the show case screens looking for the fashion movie for 9.30 pm show. As expected, it was not there and I lost the argument for Heroes on my side to Aegan for my friend. The show was also started lately by 10pm. Slowly, I realized that it coincides with my favorite mai hoon na, the 2004 blockbuster of bollywood and wondering why tamil cinema have fallen to the line of bollywood when it was making and exporting the kollywood themes to Bombay.  Aegan was damn bad compared the wonderful flow of the mai hoon na. Both the movies have action but Aegan lags in all sense from story developments to the actions. Both the movie comes to happy ending with reunion of the family but Aegan makes the viewers cry for it awful ends with waste of time and money to watch that movie.

I'm back to blog!

It has been a long time to write something for myself. Everything comes to an understanding after a bad experience. Yes, I was a proud member of Entrecard and was generating good traffic for my blog, automation & control, not that alone, through EC only, I become an addict blogger to share knowledge with each other in all corners of the world! It was really paining me to loose much of the other blogger friends, even though, I managed to get some others.

All the hell broke against me, when I got the message that your Entrecard membership was deactivated. I pleaded with the Entrecard team with assurance to avoid unwanted materials as per their direction, but they haven't given a chance for me. But from my side, I can say that any theory definition can't be changed to our own words!

I have started a new blog and hope to catch my by-gone experience with my blogging friends and hope they too will assist me to settle the things with my new blog.

Hello World!

This is Imdad, and this is my first message to the world! I hope to contribute my thoughts through this blog.